Haha yeah me again. It's quite rare that I find myself in the mood to blog so often these days. I was just reading a post on Marie's blog inspired by a post on Syd's blog and her words were:

I don't think I can deal with sharing my life, my thoughts, and myself with another from scratch again. It takes so much energy and frankly, I don't have that much to spare.

It's like she took those words right from my mouth 3 years ago. I can't begin to explain how much I understood and felt those words she's feeling now. It struck me how amazing human beings are. We may lead different lives with different people but we all go through the same things at different point of time. I am quite sure anyone who has been through a break up of a really long relationship can relate to her words too.

But having been there, albeit in a slightly different situation, I must say that do not underestimate your power to love again. It seems impossible now because you're still fresh from the pain of losing someone who was very very special to you. But given yourself time to heal and time for the right one to come along, you'll be able to share yourself again, give your all again.

I swore I'll never love again, swore my heart would never mend, said love wasn't worth the pain, but then I hear it call my name..
~Kelly Clarkson~

I don't know if it's a case of priming (you know when you're considering purchasing a particular thing and suddenly everywhere you go, you see that thing), but this year has been a year of break ups for me. So many of my friends.. from their blogs, from their lips.. I witness the ruins of intimate relationships. I hope they won't give up. It's hard, no matter who made the first move. But we're all still young and there's still much more for us to explore. Allow yourself to heal and you'll be surprise how much more there really is left in you.


p.s: please do drop me a x'mas gift into my x'mas sock (on my menu bar). Show me how much you love me without going broke!